the bleeding line

The bleeding line

 

#girl and text by loli-laboureau

It’s really hard to talk for myself when it comes to this tabu kind of speech as I’ve been part of that life too. However i am going to do my best effort as I know there are many girls going through that right now in their own realities. This kind of monster does not discriminate by age, status quo or economical situation, is that kind of monster that can attack your friend, mother, sister, or even yourself, so be aware. I am going to let Eminem to explain what happens in a violent relationship, his words are more poetic and he doesn’t count with a foreign accent-

“Have you ever love somebody so much

You can barely breathe, when you're with them, you meet

And neither one of you, even know what hit 'em,

Got that warm fuzzy feeling, yeah them chills, used to get ‘em

Now you're getting fucking sick, of looking at 'em

You swore you've never hit 'em, never do nothing to hurt 'em,

Now you're in each others face,

Spewing venom, and these words, when you spit 'em

You push, pull each other's hair, scratch, claw, bit 'em,

Throw 'em down, pin 'em, so lost in the moments, when you're in 'em

It's the rage that's the culprit, it controls you both”

In this case, it says “both”, but its not “both” when things get hit up and start getting out of control and your girl end up with bruises all over your body. The worst part is that deep inside, that is not even the worst injury, if not the mental one where you blame yourself for everything and you feel that the one who is wrong in all of this is you. 

If you are going through something similar, let me tell you that is not love. Love starts by putting yourself first. If you know of someone that is going through something similar, don’t hesitate to interfiere and ask for help from a professional because  one day they'll know it's for the best, to save yourself.