Diary 03: Romance

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romance

LET'S TALK ABOUT ROMANCE? with @gncakl

RAW emotions! that's what we need! Reality doesn't seem to exist and people don't spend time cultivating self love within other people that they meet. I remember when a friend of mine told me "YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK" and that was before cancer and i keep it with me , close to my heart, it was the best thing anyone ever said to me and i try to help remind others of their inner beauty as much as i can. 

 

We covered every topic about love, the sleepover when i was 11 at the house of my first crush, how much i laughed , the first time i watched "Rattatouille" in bed, eating pasta with another crush at 14 and the first real heartbreak, how long it takes to let go...but to let go doesn't mean dating other guys or girls, kissing strangers and getting heartbroken, it's all about self love. 

PUASE...eating a spoonful of noodles i just made!!!

  1. everybody needs love
  2. focus on the journey not the destination
  3. let go of worrying 
  4. money shouldn't control your happiness 
  5. find time to do what you love
  6. fall in love
  7. approach someone you're attracted to , don't be afraid
  8. you can sense kindness in people's eyes(that helps you decide wether to approach someone or not)
  9. trust your gut with everything 
  10. don't tilt your phone when you take a photo of someone with your phone , it makes the head larger than the body :P 
  11. don't be afraid of love
  12. try every kind of music 
  13. don't try, DO
  14. follow your dreams
  15. it takes time to get over someone and if you open up yourself , you might discover that strong emotions that you had months ago can turn into "nothing special"
  16. you will find REAL LOVE , your first, second, third heartbreak...yes you loved but if you weren't loved back equally, then why do you even want that?
  17. rather than kissing strangers, read books, cook, write, photograph, laugh, spend time around new people that become new inspiration to you
  18. don't wallow in "your perfect image of someone" , that person doesn't exist within her/him
  19. don't just be with someone that's obsessed about you but you're like "hey, you're obsessed with me. i like that but i don't really love you!" 
  20.  

FUCK FEAR IT'S NOT REAL

scroll down fora special book recommendation

Lana del Rey


We're the captains of our own souls
There's no way for us to come away
'Cause boy we're gold, boy we're gold
And I was like

Take off, take off
Take off all your clothes
Take off, take off
Take off all your clothes
Take off, take off
Take off all of your clothes
They say only the good die young
That just ain't right
'Cause we're having too much fun
Too much fun tonight, yeah

And a lust for life, and a lust for life

BOOK RECOMMENDATION: 

The Bad Girl here